Tuesday 7 January 2020

It's okay...

It's okay to feel. Its okay to feel anything that your heart needs to feel. It's okay to peek into the black hole of the darkest thoughts of your mind. It's okay to fall down, to lose yourself in tears and heartache even if you can't find the specific reason why you hurt so bad. It's okay to be human, to make mistakes. It's okay to not be everything to everyone at all times. It's okay to be a mess, it's okay to have chaos. It's okay to hurt, to feel anxious, tired.

It's okay to be you.

It's okay to be you even when the you isn't what the world wants to see. It's okay to accept every ounce of your being, the good, the bad, the pink, the black. It's okay to have flaws, it's okay to be broken. It's okay to be overwhelmed. To not be able to hold the world on your shoulders any longer. It's okay to put the problems of everyone else down and focus on your own pain.

It's okay.

It's okay only as long as you don't live there. It's not okay to crawl into that hole and bury yourself. It's not okay to die there.

It's okay to ask for help. It's more than okay to help yourself. There are reasons for you to wake up in the morning even if you can't see them they are there. There are reasons to smile again, they will come to you when you least expect it. It's okay to be happy again. It's okay if you are too tired to fight this battle but don't lose the war. It's okay to accept the people love you even when you can't love yourself. It's okay to accept that you might not be normal. What you don't realize is that no one is normal. There is no such thing as normal.

It's okay to be happy. It's okay to love yourself. It's okay to face your demons head-on and come out smiling the biggest smile you have ever had on your face. It's okay to fight for yourself because no one will fight for you like you will. It's okay to look around and see who is walking beside you. It's okay to reach out to those who have reached out to you. It's okay to cut ties of those who don't hold you up. It's okay to look at a quality of a relationship versus the length that relationship has been. It's okay to move on from your past or your present.

It's okay to be you.

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